Sooo it's mostly your Magicians username (I've been seeing you on AO3 too and it always makes me happy :D) and the fact that you did mention The Magicians, but also "queer, aroace, polyam" is who I am too, and it's a combination that tends to confuse people. And you'll find zero fandom drama and negativity on my dw because it's bad for my brain and noping out makes me so much happier. So, I'm going to add you if that's okay. :D